Are you struggling in a difficult marriage?

Is your husband angry? Does he constantly belittle you? Is he addicted to alcohol, drugs, porn—or even work?

Do you feel exhausted trying to hold your marriage together?

Have you lost all hope?

I can help…

Hi! I’m Deb Kalmbach. I consider myself an “expert” in not-so-perfect marriages. I’ve been there and done that! I’ll be the first to admit I’ve made lots of mistakes and learned many lessons the hard way. Because I know how tough it can be navigating these difficult issues, I’m passionate about being a coach/mentor–encouraging and empowering women like you.

You are not alone! I’ve been where you are. 

I believe we teach more with our scars than with our victories. It’s our brokenness that gives us compassion and insight for others who are hurting.  

If that’s you, I’m so glad you’re here!

Real hope for real life problems… 

  • Consider biblical solutions

  • Gain a new perspective on how to handle challenges in your marriage

  • Develop clarity on next steps to take

  • Implement strategies to help you move forward

  • Renew your hope

It’s possible to embrace a God-honoring life in-the-midst-of what may appear to be hopeless circumstances. I am grateful beyond words for my husband Randy and our almost 49 years of “not-so-perfect” marriage. Hope happens here!

Deb Kalmbach


Deb Kalmbach considers herself an "expert" in not-so-perfect marriages. She's the first to admit that she's learned a lot the hard way!

Deb is passionate about encouraging and empowering women to take one step forward, then another to find healing and wholeness in their lives and marriages. Real hope for real life is what she strives to communicate to her readers.

Deb and her husband Randy can see the half-century milestone (a miracle!) for their marriage on the horizon. They live in a tiny town in rural Washington state with Kosmo, their Jack Russell Terrier, who has inspired a new children's book series.

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