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Carrying the Message

Carrying the Message

I'm always amazed to see how connected we are online. A couple of months ago, I wrote a tribute to my friend Doris, who had recently passed away. Doris had encouraged me during those tough times of dealing with my husband Randy's alcoholism. Reminiscing about my...

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Remembering Dad: Navigating the First Year Without Him

Remembering Dad: Navigating the First Year Without Him

My brother posted this picture of our dad on Facebook on what would have been his 87th birthday.  Dad passed away on January 1 and it still doesn't seem quite real that he's gone. Friends who have lost loved ones have told me the "firsts" are the hardest. The first...

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A Tribute to my Friend: A Life Well-Lived

A Tribute to my Friend: A Life Well-Lived

Doris was the first person I met in the community where I've lived for almost 18 years. She passed away in May at the age of 92.  I chided myself for not visiting more during her last months. Doris suffered from dementia and other ailments, so I'm not sure she...

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Welcome to Pearl Girls™ Mother of Pearl Mother’s Day blog series—a nine-day celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today’s best writers (Tricia Goyer, Lisa Takeuchi Cullen, Beth Vogt, Lesli Westfall, and more). I...

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Welcome to Pearl Girls™ Mother of Pearl Mother’s Day blog series—a nine-day celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today’s best writers (Tricia Goyer, Lisa Takeuchi Cullen, Beth Vogt, Lesli Westfall, and more). I...

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Welcome to Pearl Girls™ Mother of Pearl Mother’s Day blog series—a nine-day celebration of moms and mothering. Each day will feature a new post by some of today’s best writers (Tricia Goyer, Lisa Takeuchi Cullen, Beth Vogt, Lesli Westfall, and more). I hope...

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Girl Rising: Don’t Miss this Inspiring Film

Girl Rising: Don’t Miss this Inspiring Film

My husband Randy and I attended a screening of the stunning film Girl Rising the other night. Produced by Paul Allen and several businesses  that have partnered through 10x10, a global action campaign to promote girls' education, Girl Rising is a must-see. We can...

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Do Not Grow Weary and Lose Heart

Tonight when I was browsing on Facebook, I saw a post that I immediately shared on my timeline... words to a song by Laura Story called Blessings...What if your blessings come through raindrops? What if your healing comes through tears? What if a thousand sleepless...

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Raise the White Flag!

Raise the White Flag!

I called my homeless brother yesterday. I only wanted to say that I love him. He couldn't hear that. He thought I was trying to intervene, judging him. He told me his life is miserable, the party's over--not that there ever was a party, I thought. I tried to interject...

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Sunday’s Coming! Who can forget Tony Campolo's incredibly powerful message from a number of years ago, It's Friday, but Sunday's Coming? Just in case you've never heard it, Tony Campolo, a pastor and university professor, recounted a sermon preached by an...

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Deb Kalmbach